We’re looking forward to introducing you to Enisa Ray. Check out our conversation below.
Enisa, really appreciate you sharing your stories and insights with us. The world would have so much more understanding and empathy if we all were a bit more open about our stories and how they have helped shaped our journey and worldview. Let’s jump in with a fun one: What do you think is misunderstood about your business?
Real estate is often misunderstood as an easy way to make quick money, but in reality, it’s a demanding and inconsistent job. Many people think agents just show houses and collect commissions, but most of the work happens behind the scenes—negotiating, marketing, managing paperwork, and constantly prospecting for new clients. Income can be unpredictable, especially early on, and success depends heavily on self-discipline, local knowledge, and people skills. It’s also emotionally draining at times—deals fall through, clients back out, and you’re often working evenings and weekends.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Hi! I’m a realtor with RE/MAX Choice in Fayetteville, and my journey into real estate has been anything but traditional—I actually started out as a baker, specializing in French macarons! After years of crafting delicate macarons, I made the leap into real estate, drawn by the excitement and the opportunity to truly connect with people during one of the most important moments in their lives.
Working in this field has been incredibly rewarding, but also harder than people might think—especially because English is not my first language. Coming from overseas, I had to overcome many challenges, adapt to a new culture, and do a lot of personal growth to get to where I am today. I’m proud to be part of the RE/MAX Choice team, where the support and sense of community make a big difference. Real estate is full of surprises, and every day brings a new opportunity to learn, grow, and help someone move forward.
Okay, so here’s a deep one: What breaks the bonds between people—and what restores them?
I’ve always believed that the bond between people with clean hearts is unbreakable. When a connection is built on honesty, kindness, and good intentions, it carries a strength that time, distance, or hardship can’t easily shake. To me, those bonds feel almost timeless, because they’re rooted in something deeper than just circumstance.
What I think truly breaks a bond is the loss of trust. When loyalty is questioned, when words no longer align with actions, or when truth is replaced with dishonesty, the foundation begins to crumble. It isn’t the challenges of life that destroy relationships—it’s when hearts stop being genuine with one another.
But I also believe bonds can be restored. When both sides are willing to return to sincerity, to practice forgiveness, and to show up with honesty and loyalty again, healing is possible. For me, the connections that last are the ones where both people value being real and true above everything else.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
If I could say one kind thing to my younger self, it would be that even though the war and the struggles will leave an impact, they will not define the rest of your life. Life will get better—the fear will pass, the hardships will ease, and peace will return. One day, you will be loved by the right man, someone who will cherish you with the gentleness and devotion you always deserved. Hold on, because even in the darkest moments, a brighter future filled with light, love, and strength is waiting for you.
Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. What’s a cultural value you protect at all costs?
A cultural value I protect at all costs is the deep sense of family and community I carry from my Balkan roots. Coming from the Balkans to the United States, I immediately noticed the differences—here, life often moves fast, independence is celebrated, and people can sometimes feel more individualistic. In the Balkans, however, family is at the very center of everything. We grow up with a strong sense of belonging, loyalty, and responsibility toward one another.
This value is important to me because it shapes the way I see relationships, not just within my family, but in friendships and community as well. In Balkan culture, you don’t go through life alone—there is always someone to share a meal with, to lean on in hard times, or to celebrate with in good times. Protecting that value means preserving a way of life where connection, respect for elders, traditions, and genuine hospitality are not just nice gestures, but an imperative.
No matter where I live, I hold on to this because it reminds me of who I am and ensures that the warmth, loyalty, and togetherness of my culture will always live on in me and in the way I raise my own family.
Before we go, we’d love to hear your thoughts on some longer-run, legacy type questions. When do you feel most at peace?
I feel most at peace when I am with my family—my husband and daughter. It doesn’t matter where we are or what we are doing; what matters is that we are together, sharing moments, laughter, and love. Those times, simple as they may seem, create a sense of calm and contentment that nothing else can replace. Being with them reminds me of what is truly important in life and fills me with a quiet, lasting peace.
Contact Info:
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