Lakesha Henderson shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Good morning Lakesha , it’s such a great way to kick off the day – I think our readers will love hearing your stories, experiences and about how you think about life and work. Let’s jump right in? What battle are you avoiding?
The biggest battle I’m avoiding is giving up on myself. It’s easy to let doubt, fear, and setbacks weigh you down, but I know that if I stop fighting for me, I’m also letting down every woman I’ve ever inspired to love herself, to walk with confidence, and to own every room she steps into. My journey isn’t just about me—it’s about being a reflection of resilience and courage for those who need to see that it’s possible to keep going, even when it feels hard. So while giving up might feel like the easier path, I know the real victory lies in continuing to rise, not just for me, but for every woman who dares to believe she can too.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Lakesha Henderson, and I’m the owner of Lace Kouture Boutique, an online plus-size boutique based in North Carolina. At Lace Kouture, our mission is to make women feel loved, confident, and powerful in their wardrobe. We don’t just sell clothing—we provide styling services for brand photoshoots, as well as rental services for fashion shows and special events. What makes us unique is the way we build genuine relationships with our clients, ensuring that every woman feels seen, celebrated, and stylish.
In addition, I’m the founder of Girl You’re A Boss, an empowerment organization that creates safe, inspiring spaces for women to connect, grow, and thrive. Through resources, events, and women-centered outings, we bring together like-minded women who are on a journey of self-love, growth, and success. Both my boutique and organization are rooted in my passion for helping women step into every room with confidence and own their power unapologetically.
Great, so let’s dive into your journey a bit more. What’s a moment that really shaped how you see the world?
A moment that really shaped how I see the world was when I realized that my biggest support system didn’t come from the people who knew me best or even from my hometown. That was eye-opening for me, because it showed me that no matter how much you pour into others, you can’t always expect that same energy in return. From that day forward, I made a decision: I needed to be intentional about building new relationships and getting into rooms where no one knew my name—but they would when I left. That shift taught me the importance of standing on business, showing up for myself, walking in purpose and finding my true tribe.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
If I could say one kind thing to my younger self, it would be: always believe in yourself and go after what you truly want in life. You are not a quitter. Pay close attention to the people who try to plant seeds of doubt in you, and remember to keep God first in everything you do. Every dream you carry is a manifestation waiting to come alive, so apply all gas and no brakes—because in the end, the reward will be greater than you ever imagined. Walk boldly in your purpose and never be afraid to shine. Your gift will make room for you and your family, and through Christ, all things are possible.
I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
My closest friends would say that what really matters to me is giving. I have a heart to help anyone I possibly can, and if I have the resources, I’ll gladly share them. They’d tell you that in a time of need, I will always show up—that’s just who I am. Sometimes it backfires, because not everyone is worthy of my gift, but I’d rather be remembered as someone who gave from the heart than someone who held back.
Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
The story I hope people tell about me when I’m gone is that I touched countless lives—not only through my personal career, but also through my boutique. That I was someone who always showed up, who gave what I could, and who stepped in when no one else would. I want people to remember how the families of my cancer patients and the patients themselves touched my life and reshaped how I see the world. Most of all, I hope people say I helped women build their confidence and walk boldly in it, knowing their worth and power. I want to be known as one of God’s chosen—someone who went the extra mile, gave from the heart, prayed for others, and left behind a legacy of love, faith, confidence, and service.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://lacekouture.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoralE0lCbGtXhhGkdjOuchDF9ERi5zgmOt4IVe4gEsi_jO4_crS
- Instagram: https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2FLkouture336%3Ffbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExdE5hVFV6TUN5TnFKZTcwZgEedqua1OjGsFzpx-O0hBFJ28w0rQwuB-7tYf0M7B_dLEA4jeMWh1qo92tJ01k_aem_nuxmGrn0Dn3VvxA3BO78GQ&h=AT2VA3SwM4iExJf-Ech5F1kLNc1UXN_kjEhHZM2lAFC_96N7KiDY8c0S-73WyNyxYttJtaO1b2hSxLeUe6uic9Zki9OCvIeCnTMNX0QiyXDSo9g_zx5tZi_t-vS_
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lacekouture336/
- Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@lacekoutureboutiquellc9211
- Other: TikTok/ lkplussizeboutique
Image Credits
K & A Photography
Whitney Collin’s Photography
