We’re looking forward to introducing you to Kay Shakta. Check out our conversation below.
Kay, really appreciate you sharing your stories and insights with us. The world would have so much more understanding and empathy if we all were a bit more open about our stories and how they have helped shaped our journey and worldview. Let’s jump in with a fun one: What are you most proud of building — that nobody sees?
I have been building a lifelong homeschooling system suitable for both adults and children. This system cultivates and maintains inner stability, security, body worship, and abundant awareness so we can find pleasure, presence, power, and purpose in everything that unfolds in our path. It’s the most yummy thing I’ve ever put in place for my energetic success on Earth.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Here I am, eight years in the game, having survived the burnout that lived in my body and the desperate desire to burn down my business. I survived.
My rebirthed name is Kay Shakta, and I received the “Shakta” Spiritual Alignment title fromerly “Jones” from the Divine after graduating from the Universe-City of Earth Embodiment. I successfully shifted my survival perspective and expression into the abundant oneness of Universal Law.
It all began with building SheOrgasms, a trusted space for women seeking products that genuinely worked, and information that deeply resonated with their yearning for pleasure, love, and connection aligned to the magnificence of their hearts. Around my fifth year, right after my Saturn return and my stepping into unconditional love through the birth of my baby, something shifted. My energy became highly susceptible to manipulation. Subtly reprogrammed by the very people and environments I once deemed safe, sacred, and nurturing.
It has been one helluva journey, one that initiated me through betrayal, heartbreak, grief, stress, a shamed sexuality, a wounded womb, and an overpopulated, self-exhausting mind. I felt internally disconnected from the orgasmic frequency of my divine essence. I couldn’t find her anymore. The pulse of my vitality, magnetism, radiance, coherence, sensuality, and eroticism went dim.
That darkness caused me to lose control of my business foundation, my brand’s expression, and the erotic instinct that once guided my creation. I lost the microbial consciousness of my gut that inspired right action and the embodied intellect that once clearly discerned my truth. I became confused, overwhelmed, and energetically shut down.
During that three-to-four-year pilgrimage through survival mode, my 5D anchor began receiving an avalanche of divine downloads. I didn’t know what I was building, but I kept decoding, transcribing, and trusting. I had one mission: to find something substantial enough to restore my yoni, gut, and mind alignment after being dragged through the mud, or rather, the dirt, because there was absolutely no water left in my soil.
Everything I was birthing came from urgency and mental control instead of presence, rhythm, and co-creation. I longed never again to allow anything or anyone outside of me to dictate the state of my energetic essence. I wanted to be the one who decides how good I feel in my body; not a lover, not a paycheck, not an outcome. Because when those things leave, I never want them to destroy me the way they once did.
Eventually, the downloads slowed. I could finally breathe and begin integrating what I had received. After spending a full year making sense of it all, connecting the codes to who I am today, and aligning them with my current inner resources. That’s when my divine role revealed itself, clear as day.
I am The Energetic Alignment Practitioner of the Inner-G Clinic.
I oversee the Frequency Rebirth Labs and the SheOrgasms Orgasmic Activator Botanical Garden. One offering clients a taste of the orgasmic frequency through supplements and tinctures, the other developing that frequency through embodiment, intuitive diagnostics, and seamless, no-engagement operations.
Sounds wild? It is. And it took me years to feel truly capable of stepping into the magnitude of this predetermined calling. Now, I host Orgasmica Kinetic Activation events and workshops and write the Orgasmic Living Magazine on Substack. All channels of devotion that let the divine pulse move through me again.
This may sound like a lot, but every piece of it has been strategically aligned with the natural desires of my energetic makeup so that my reality unfolds smoothly, sensually, and divinely guided. It feels like I’m being pulled through room-temperature butter by the hands of Source, comforted, soothed, grateful, and coated in purpose.
Through completing my own Frequency Rebirth operations and using my activators as sacred support, I have reprogrammed my consciousness back to the cellular remembrance of my divine essence.
Okay, so here’s a deep one: What was your earliest memory of feeling powerful?
My first encounter with the shared intimacy of the body surprisingly led to orgasm. Feeling that power at such a young age catapulted me into self-honoring liberation, and knowing the magnificence of my feminine essence.
What’s something you changed your mind about after failing hard?
Whew. No one really teaches you how to recover after failure. I’ve had a pretty lucky, aligned, and whimsical life experience because I maintained the orgasmic frequency in my body. But everything changed once that vibration was disturbed by stress, other people’s emotions, and worry. I started attracting misaligned opportunities, sketchy connections, and misfortune.
After failing hard, I changed my mind about how I relate to failure itself. I used to care so much about how it might be perceived that I kept myself hidden. Too aware of the “elephant in the room.” I stayed out of sight until I no longer felt like a failure.
Now I understand that the lesson wasn’t about avoiding failure but about reclaiming my essence regardless of outcome. I had to untangle my attachment and care from external sources (business ventures, relationships, ideas, friendships) and stop letting what happens outside of me dictate my internal vibration. My worth, my pleasure, and my peace are mine to protect.
Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
The biggest lie my industry tells itself is that the orgasmic frequency is something you receive from someone or something outside of you.
It’s not. It’s a state of being. A natural resonance we return to when we allow ourselves to release awareness from the noise of the body and mind, and commune with spirit through presence. When you soften into that surrender, you enter the orgasmic frequency: a current of divine coherence that can be felt for days, even weeks, once awakened.
You radiate differently when loved properly and pleasured intentionally. Not because someone gave you that energy, but because you remembered how to generate it within yourself. To bask in it is to embody magnetism, abundance, and radiant aliveness.
Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. What do you understand deeply that most people don’t?
What I understand deeply that most people don’t is that true stability and security aren’t external achievements; they are internal harmonies. We’ve been conditioned to believe that safety comes from accumulation: from relationships, money, titles, or protection plans. But those things only mirror our internal state, they don’t create it.
Real security is born from the waters within us. The fluids that govern our hormones, emotions, and energetic communication systems. When the waters of the body are stagnant, dehydrated, or disrupted, we feel anxious, reactive, or ungrounded no matter how much success we have. But when those waters flow in harmony, when breath, lymph, blood, and cerebrospinal fluid circulate freely, we experience a deep, embodied sense of stability.
Aligning the energetic flow of the body is not spiritual fluff. It’s rooted in biology and consciousness. A regulated nervous system, a hydrated body, and harmonized hormones are the foundation of emotional safety, intuition, and self-trust.
So, while the world chases security through contracts, careers, and connections, I’ve learned that the truest form of safety is energetic coherence, the inner alignment between your waters, your breath, your thoughts, and your spirit. Once that’s in harmony, everything external naturally organizes itself around that frequency, which happens to be the core of the Frequency Rebirth Lab.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.sheorgasms.com; frequencyrebirthlabs.com; orgasmica.carrd.co
- Instagram: @kayshakta
- Linkedin: @kayshakta
- Facebook: @Sheorgasms
- Other: Substack @KayShakta
Image Credits
@gullahgeecheeprincess & @richhomiebrooklyn
