We wake up, get work, go back home and rinse and repeat – or at least it feels that way sometimes. In truth, there are a million moments in between where we interact with others and we can’t help but wonder what folks will think about us once we aren’t showing up, perhaps once we are gone. Some very thoughtful members of the community share their thoughts on this with us below.
Helen Pace
I hope that people will remember how deeply I loved them when I’m gone, especially my daughters. I think, for me, parenting is paramount to everything else that I do. I’ve got two teenage girls, one in college and one a sophomore, and parenting teenagers isn’t a cakewalk. Read more>>
Mark Chambers
That one time when I was fishing in Hatteras and I had been up for 3 days straight. I was hitchhiking from Avon and finally got picked up from some nice people. Read more>>
Jarmichael Harris
Legacy is one of my core values. Not legacy in the sense of names in lights, trophies, or awards, but in how we are remembered when we are gone. I never gave it much thought until I lost my father in September 2007. Over two thousand people came to his memorial service, and that moment changed me. Read more>>
Donald Robertson
I hope people understand that, above all, I was a genuine human being. I cared deeply and gave respect to everyone around me. I always worked hard, carried a competitive spirit, and did everything from the heart. Read more>>
Quincy Hinojos
That’s deep, man. Honestly, I think the story I’d hope people tell about me is that I was real, you know? I lived life on my terms, I loved with all my heart, and I left a dent in the world that was uniquely mine. Maybe they’d say I made ’em laugh, cry, or think differently about something. Read more>>
Milton Gore
One day, we’ll all leave this world, and when that day comes, I want to be remembered in a good and meaningful way. The things people often associate with; art, community service, and ability to connect with others, are all parts of who I am, and I hope they’re remembered fondly. Read more>>
Blanca Jimenez
That I was a person that never gave up, a person that provided a service with kindness and professionalism. Read more>>
Cuzo Key
I’m committed to building a life that reflects my vision and values. I’m patient with the process but focused on the goal. For me, it’s about growth — creating and shaping my path on my own terms. Whether that’s through music, the people I keep around, or the choices I make daily — everything I do connects back to that mission. Read more>>
